February 26, 2008

  • Highlights

        The highlight of our trip for me was getting to sit on the bed of a 91 year old woman with her, (yes the one in the red nighty who kissed me right on the lips a few months back... and yes, the one with the purple stripe in her hair.) 


     Shirley in Red Night Gown   DSCN6366   DSCN6397


         She said to me, "I am ugly, but you see that picture up there on the wall?  Well, that's me when I was a baby and I was cute back then."  She was tearing up and her voice was a bit emotional.  I didn't write here all my words back to her about being beautiful on the inside even though the outside is fading away, etc." 


        She showed me a picture her dad had sketched on a napkin.  It was a picture of Jesus done expertly.  She was saying no one would want that picture when she is gone.  And I said, I sure would, it is an amazing sketch with tremendous detail.  She said I could have it when she dies.  (Later she told her daughter I said I wanted that picture when she dies.) 


        Anyway, she told me many tails (or should it be "tales"?) all linked to different items in her very fully accessorized room.  It was a special time, I won't forget.  I think she is beautiful.  She has a wonderful lively spirit.  She sure helped lift my spirits when I was there.  Thanks Lord for Shirley.

Comments (10)

  • Your story reminds me of my Mammaw (my grandmother on my father's side) who had all kinds of knick-knacks and such which she kept around her in her assisted-living places and finally in the nursing home; and she could tell the stories behind each one-- who gave it to her, when, and for what occasion. Then she'd tell about the person who gave it to her and things they had done together. If it was something she had bought for herself, she could tell all about that too-- where she was and why she wanted it. It was her way of keeping memories of important people, places, and events in her life close at hand.

    Since you asked, yes, it should be "tales."

  • Thanks for sharing your story and thanks for your comments too...Be Blessed....Mike

  • tales and my granny did the same and I can tell my neices and nephews and I feel that I'm the bearer of the family history.

  • Glad you are home and thanks for sharing.  I really needed to hear about people loving on eachother. :)   Love ya....Jen

  • @FooFrater - If you want to you could go to  Justmeandy@xanga.com today and watch his video.  Must be alot of people are feeling sort of unloved right now.  I think it would be fun to do this someplace as an activity.  I love you very, very much and I like you very, very much too!  I want to come up there and hang out... I wish our lives weren't so busy going places right now.  Maybe after Israel we can be freer. 

  • It's hard to realize we all will probably be there some day. Memories are very inportant when you get older. Love, Mom

  • Very touching to see the beauty within!((((Hugs)))) Have a Great evening!.......In Christ's love......Monic

  • I wasn't even cute when I was a baby.

  • Thanks for the comment. I thought about taking baths with my foot hanging over the edge, but since we bought a transfer seat for Suzanne's mom when she came to visit last year, we thought it best to use that. I tape a small trash bag over my leg just below the knee, and then I can sit on the seat to take my shower. It's much easier and safer than getting in and out of a tub. That's probably more information than you wanted to know.

    Photographs, of course, are another way of preserving memories (my Mammaw must have had thousands of them.) My main profile pic is a detail from a larger picture taken from Song of the Mountains, my favorite of all the plays I have been in. I chose it because it looks like a gesture of greeting, although the character is actually pronouncing a formal blessing as part of what we would call a wedding ceremony. Click here to see the whole picture. The picture next to my previous comment is me as detective Jack Elliott in the 2005 production of Late One Night, which is the hardest play I've ever done. Because it is so authoritative-looking, I use it as a kind of joke when I do something like correct someone's spelling or grammar. The picture next to this comment is the same character from a more recent production of the same play.

  • RYC:  I'm going to enjoy spring this year - this winter has been so very long. 

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