Well, we must do the right thing. What is the right thing? The right thing is the thing one does that benefits others. In other words it would "seem" the right thing is to just want peace with all. I will just mind my own business and be nice to everyone. And kindness is a wonderful gift to give someone, but it turns out to be a very selfish thing most of the time, many times, or sometimes because it is based on self centeredness. In other words... I just want to love so I will be loved in return. I sure don't want to meddle. On the flip side people can meddle and butt in where they should not be. The whole point is motive. What is the motive behind getting involved or staying out of it? Is it to benefit others or to just express yourself? Is it just to make some trouble for someone who has made trouble for you? I guess what I am saying is we can so easily deceive our own selves into believing we are "right" when our motive makes whatever we are involved in...so wrong!
My great grandma used to say, "one side or a wheel off" when she wanted to get past you. And that is our attitude so much of the time. We don't want to lose our wheel so we move aside. Or we are the one saying "one side or a wheel off" to someone standing in the way of our goal. Both can be selfish actions all depending on the motive. But I have to add what the scriptures say that the prudent man sees trouble and hides himself from it. So in other words don't be stupid and pretend trouble isn't coming.
I heard a message years ago that still bothers me to this very day. It was a message on the "spirit of non-commitment" which says "you don't bug me and I won't bug you". The point was that attitude is not the peace God calls us to embrace or promote. We will have to account for the things we have done in this body... and the basis will be the "motive". Did I do what I did for the eyes of men? Did I do what I did for the love of me? Did I do what I did to save me from trouble and if so does that leave others vulnerable to that same trouble?
I have done everything wrong and a few times I have done something right. I think this heart issue or motive is the reason God is the only righteous judge. For our hearts are laid bare before Him. We cannot deceive Him. He knows.
This whole post stems from some soul searching regarding our Uncle. When I think of him and the things that have been done I am saddened through and through. If we could go back and do things differently.. but I think my motive definitely wasn't right. Another thing I have learned is that so many times when our motive is right, we won't want to do what we are being called to do. But this is the way to see God's power released in our life. It is the narrow road that leads to life and few there are that go that way. Broad is the road that leads to destruction and many there are who go that way. WE CAN DO HARD THINGS! Lord help us!

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